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- Chapter 8 — The Foundation Statement: What to Say
- Appendix I — The Foundation Routine: A Quick Guide
- Appendix J — The Foundation Routine: Technical and Scientific Notes
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Preliminary Pages
The Goulding System Online Edition* A Parent’s...
A Message From Joane Goulding
It is an honour to share with you a process...
About The Co-Author: David Dixon
David Dixon has worked alongside Joane Goulding for more than...
A Note on This Edition
A Note On This Edition This book has been written...
How To Use This Book
Parents come to this book with different needs. Some are...
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The Goulding System Book
New and Updated for Today's Families
Preliminary Pages
A Message From Joane Goulding
About The Co-Author: David Dixon
A Note on This Edition
How To Use This Book
Introduction: Before You Begin
Table Of Contents
Chapter 1 — The Foundation Of Unconditional Love
Chapter 2 — The Story Of Michelle
Chapter 3 — The Miracle Mind: Why It Works
Chapter 4 — Understanding The Subconscious
Chapter 5 — The Brain As A Computer Model
Chapter 6 * The Top Hat Technique
Chapter 7 * The Foundation Routine – What To Do
Chapter 8 * The Foundation Statement – What To Say
Chapter 9 — Holding Children Steady In Unsteady Times
Chapter 10 — Siblings: Harmony, Disharmony & Rivalry
Chapter 11 — Sibling Conflict – The Support Process
Chapter 12 — Foundation Feedback
Chapter 13 — Goulding System Support: Building On The Foundation
Chapter 14 — Foundations Before Birth
Chapter 15 — Special Considerations and Professional Guidance
Chapter 16 — The Goulding System Today: Legacy & Continuation
Goulding System References
Appendix A — The Science Behind The Goulding System
Appendix B — Developing Research, Emerging Studies & Ongoing Investigations
Appendix C — FAQs: Frequently Asked Questions
Appendix D * Foundation Statement Variables
Appendix E — Further Reading and Resources
Appendix F * The Goulding System: Glossary Of Terms
Appendix G — Contact and Practitioner Directory
Appendix H — About The Founder: Joane Goulding
Appendix I * The Foundation Routine: A Quick Guide
Appendix J * The Foundation Routine: Technical And Scientific Notes
Appendix K — Émile Coué: Suggestion, And The Early Psychology Of Hope
Appendix L — HARP: Hybrid Access And Archival Publishing Protocol
Appendix M — Testimonials And Case Histories: It Works!
Appendix N * The Foundation Routine Reference Sheet
Preliminary Pages
The Goulding System Online Edition* A Parent’s Guide to Emotional Resilience in Children By Joane Goulding David Dixon *From the Complete Edition. Copyright…
A Message From Joane Goulding
It is an honour to share with you a process that began as a deeply personal experience and, over time, has touched the lives of…
About The Co-Author: David Dixon
David Dixon has worked alongside Joane Goulding for more than two decades and has been closely involved in the development, refinement, and dissemination of the…
A Note on This Edition
A Note On This Edition This book has been written for parents and families. Its purpose is practical: to help you understand and confidently use…
How To Use This Book
Parents come to this book with different needs. Some are tired and looking for immediate reassurance. Others prefer to understand the reasoning before they begin….
Introduction: Before You Begin
This introduction offers a clear, everyday-language overview of what the Goulding System is, how it works, and what parents commonly notice when they begin using…
Table Of Contents
Goulding System Book Table of Contents Other Books by Joane Goulding. i Copyright and Publication Information ii Child Protection and Mandatory Reporting iii Dedication iv…
Chapter 1 — The Foundation Of Unconditional Love
Introduction – Love Without Condition The Goulding System begins with one simple truth — and it is a powerful one: A child who feels loved…
Chapter 2 — The Story Of Michelle
Introduction — When Struggle Becomes Change Every story begins with a heartbeat. Mine began with a little girl who quietly altered the direction of my…
Chapter 3 — The Miracle Mind: Why It Works
Introduction — Why the Mind Responds When families begin using the Goulding System, many are surprised by the changes they start to see. What feels…
Chapter 4 — Understanding The Subconscious
Introduction — The Mind Beneath Awareness Every parent recognises the look in a sleeping child’s face — the softness, the stillness, the quiet that feels…
Chapter 5 — The Brain As A Computer Model
Introduction – Your Brain Is Not a Computer… But Let’s Pretend It Is We use computers constantly — phones, tablets, laptops. We’ve learned how quickly…
Chapter 6 * The Top Hat Technique
Introduction – From Joane For many years, I have used a simple concept to help parents understand how a child’s mind opens to loving reassurance…
Chapter 7 * The Foundation Routine – What To Do
Introduction — Entering the Calm You’ve now explored the Top Hat Technique and seen how a child’s brain naturally moves through different stages, becoming more…
Chapter 8 * The Foundation Statement – What To Say
Introduction — The Heart of the Method Everything we have covered leads to this and the following chapter. The Foundation Statement is the heart of…
Chapter 9 — Holding Children Steady In Unsteady Times
Introduction — Returning to the Centre A young child’s emotional world rests on a small number of quiet beliefs: I am loved. I am wanted….
Chapter 10 — Siblings: Harmony, Disharmony & Rivalry
Introduction — Growing Up Together For many children, a sibling is their first companion, their first challenger, and often their first experience of navigating closeness…
Chapter 11 — Sibling Conflict – The Support Process
Introduction — When Normal Friction Becomes Harm In most families, sibling relationships move between harmony, disharmony, and rivalry. These shifts are ordinary. They are developmental….
Chapter 12 — Foundation Feedback
Introduction — Understanding the Signs of Change Every child responds to the Foundation Routine in their own way. Some changes are gentle and almost unnoticeable;…
Chapter 13 — Goulding System Support: Building On The Foundation
Chapter 13 — Goulding System Support: Building On The Foundation Introduction — Understanding the Goulding System Support Pathway Every family begins the Goulding System in…
Chapter 14 — Foundations Before Birth
Introduction – A Voice Before Birth Parents often ask whether the Goulding System can begin before a baby is born. The answer is simple —…
Chapter 15 — Special Considerations and Professional Guidance
Introduction — Care With Wisdom Every child is unique. Some sail smoothly through life’s early years, while others face medical, neurological, or emotional challenges that…
Chapter 16 — The Goulding System Today: Legacy & Continuation
When Joane Goulding first began speaking loving words to her daughter in the 1970s, she was not setting out to create a program. There was…
Goulding System References
External Links Notice External hyperlinks are provided for reader convenience and reference only, and their inclusion does not constitute endorsement of the linked organisations, authors,…
Appendix A — The Science Behind The Goulding System
Suggestion and the Subconscious – From Coué to Modern Psychology The idea that positive suggestions can influence mental processes has deep historical roots. Over a…
Appendix B — Developing Research, Emerging Studies & Ongoing Investigations
Pilot Study at Heinrich-Heine-Universität Düsseldorf A noteworthy emerging investigation into sleep-based suggestion techniques is a pilot study conducted at the Institute for Clinical Psychology, Heinrich-Heine-Universität…
Appendix C — FAQs: Frequently Asked Questions
1. Understanding the Goulding System Q 1.1 What is the Goulding System? A. The Goulding System is a gentle, family-based approach that offers children nightly…
Appendix D * Foundation Statement Variables
Introduction: modern families are varied The Foundation Statement remains exact in wording and order. However, families come in many forms, and not every line applies…
Appendix E — Further Reading and Resources
A Note on the Included Classic Texts From time to time, readers ask where the ideas behind this System first began. The honest answer is…
Appendix F * The Goulding System: Glossary Of Terms
This glossary explains many of the key terms, concepts, and expressions used throughout the Goulding System. It is intended to help parents, caregivers, educators, and…
Appendix G — Contact and Practitioner Directory
Over the years, many parents and professionals have asked where they can find further support, guidance, or training related to the Goulding System. Current information…
Appendix H — About The Founder: Joane Goulding
Joane Goulding is the Creator of The Goulding System. Based on biographical and historical material Early Life and Formative Influences Joane Goulding was born in…
Appendix I * The Foundation Routine: A Quick Guide
Introduction — A One-Page Summary This appendix is a brief overview of the general structure of the Goulding System Foundation Routine. It explains in brief…
Appendix J * The Foundation Routine: Technical And Scientific Notes
Introduction — Why These Notes Exist The Foundation Routine is intentionally simple. This appendix briefly explains the underlying principles that support it. It is not…
Appendix K — Émile Coué: Suggestion, And The Early Psychology Of Hope
In the early decades of the twentieth century, long before neuroscience, cognitive behavioural therapy, or the scientific study of placebo and nocebo effects had become…
Appendix L — HARP: Hybrid Access And Archival Publishing Protocol
A Structured Framework for Reference Access, Verification, and Archival Preservation 1 Purpose and Rationale The HARP system (Hybrid Access and Archival Publishing Protocol) has been…
Appendix M — Testimonials And Case Histories: It Works!
Over many generations of bringing the Goulding System parenting approach to the world, the author, Joane Goulding, has assisted families around the globe to develop…
Appendix N * The Foundation Routine Reference Sheet
Print out this sheet for easy reference. If you are uncertain of any part of this procedure, re-read Chapters 7 and 8. ~ Instructions: Fold…